Why Receiving Encouragement Can Be Hard

Many creative people share something interesting in common.

When someone compliments their work, their first instinct is often to say:

“Oh, it’s just a card.”
“Oh, it’s nothing special.”
“Oh, that was quick.”

We shrink the moment.

But encouragement is one of the most powerful gifts creativity can offer.

I once gave someone a handmade card.

To me, it was a simple project — a stamped sentiment, layered paper, maybe a ribbon.

But when they received it, they looked at it carefully and said:

“This is beautiful. You’re really talented.”

My immediate response was:

“Oh, it’s just a card.”

Later that evening I realized something.

To me it was just a card.

To them, it was a moment of care and connection.

Encouragement works the same way.

When someone appreciates something we’ve created, they are recognizing the meaning behind it.

Creativity Is About Connection

When we create, we share a piece of ourselves.

And when someone responds with appreciation, they are acknowledging that connection.

Learning to simply say “thank you” allows that connection to remain intact.

One of the greatest benefits of being part of a creative team is the encouragement that naturally grows within that community.

Inside the Gems Paper Scissors team we celebrate:

• creative experiments
• new techniques
• finished projects
• even the occasional crafting “oops”

Encouragement fuels creativity.

And creativity grows stronger when we support each other.

The next time someone compliments your creativity, try a simple experiment.

Pause.

Smile.

And say:

“Thank you.”

You may discover that encouragement is one of the most powerful gifts you can receive.